Join me as I tell my story as a male-victim of 10+ years of ongoing domestic abuse at the hands of my ex-girlfriend/current co-parent of our 8-year old daughter, shielded by members of her church, family & friends, enabled by the blatantly gender-biased Larimer County court system, and emboldended by the weaponized negligance of the Colorado Department of Human Services (CPS) who have yet to actually protect my daughter - the URL may be past tense but our nightmare is never-ending.
Jamie
Jamie is a lifelong resident of the Northern Colorado area. Having met Deirdre through mutual community circles in childhood, the two transitioned from a long-term friendship into a relationship as young adults.
Like his daughter, Jamie is diagnosed with ADHD & Autisim, and more recently, Depression & Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (C-PTSD) following nearly 10 years of being in an abusive relationship with Deirdre. Relentlessly resiliant, he has fought tooth and nail to remain involved in his daughter's life in the face of constant manipulation, coercive control, lies, & systemic injustices, and will continue to do so - to-date, Jamie has invested hundreds of hours into shaping his parenting skillsets through multiple parenting classes to ensure his daughter is protected from becoming a 3rd-generation victim of family trauma.
Professionally, Jamie has leveraged his disability as young as 15 to maintain a strong independant lifestyle that is self-supported by his long-standing career within the tech industry.
Addy
Like her father, Addy is 'twice-exceptional', meaning she has ADHD and Autism. She is the true victim, suffering various forms of abuse by her mother & mother's enablers, resulting in severe anxiety, depression, and suicidal ideation at the mere age of 5. Despite this, Addy is fearless & resiliant, and will always have the fatherly protection she deserves.
Copper
Copper was Deirdre's dog and became a key character in the family and an early favorite companion of Addy. Sadly, Copper was the oft-victim of physical abuse at the hands of his owner which ultimately compromised his physical health leading to his early death.
Deirdre Noel Lehmann
Deirdre Lehmann is a lifelong resident of the Northern Colorado area. Having met Jamie through mutual community circles in childhood, the two transitioned from a long-term friendship into a relationship as young adults.
Professionally, Deirdre has maintained long-term employment within the service industry at Cracker Barrel. Around 2022, her focus shifted toward casual dating, part-time employment, and ongoing enrollment in higher education. While this path has involved many years of subsidized grants and scholarships, it has not yet resulted in a degree or professional certification, and has come at the continued cost of her special-needs daughter absent any official parental training or certifications. This persistent gap between her earning capacity and her actual income has become a central point of contention in ongoing family court proceedings, particularly regarding the calculation of financial support and eligibility for social services.
Deborah Dabney Lehmann/Demander/Reno/etc aka "Mystee Crockett"
Pessimi homines res pessimas faciunt. Quis nostrum hoc prohibebit? Videtur mihi in potestate cadere.
Larimer County Department of Human Services (CPS)
LCDHS became involved with the family in May 2025. "The Department", as they like to unironically call themselves, has consistently neglected to fulfill their sole mandate to protect either Addison as a child, or Jamie as an at-risk adult, ignored all ADA Accomodations requests, and have willfully turned a blind eye to multiple instances of well-documented violence & abuse by Deirdre, and instead focused exclusively on Jamie's "emotional" responses to this abuse despite being completely unrelated to his parenting abilities. To date, LCDHS has failed to support Jamie's family despite a long-standing pattern af Deirdre's abuse and violence, including:
- 2022 - 2025: "screened out" multiple reports from Jamie about blatant child abuse & neglect by Deirdre including child abandonment.
- May 2025: Backing over Jamie's foot with her car in front of Addy.
- July 2025: Trespassing, harrassing, and attempted breaking & entering Jamie's home to physically extract Addy from Jamie's court-ordered custody, then falsely alleged assault when Jamie was forced to protect himself.
- August 2025: Withholding Addy on Jamie's court-ordred parenting time for well over a month as she tried to claim to be the victim of her own actions in July despite being the agressor.
- November 2025: Using her support network to file more than 20 false allegations against Jamie via LCDHS's child-abuse hotline, and somehow obtaining Jamie's private medical records in violation of HIPAA laws.
- October 2025: "Screened out" and failure to repond to Jamie's report (with evidence) that Deirdre had left a handprint-shaped bruise on Addy's chest, threw Addy into a bedpost, and threatened to tape Addy's mouth shut. Deirdre also withheld Addy on Jamie's court-ordered parenting time for Halloween.
- December 2025: Withholding Addy on Jamie's court-ordered parenting time for Christmas break.
- January 2026: Nearly running Jamie off the road to beat him to Addy's school in yet another attempt to withhold Addy on Jamie's court-ordered parenting time.
- March 2026: Using coercive control, coached Addy to elope from Jamie's care so Deirdre could pick her up in yet another attempt to interfere with Jamie's court-ordered parenting time.
Larimer County Family Courts
Pessimi homines res pessimas faciunt. Quis nostrum hoc prohibebit? Videtur mihi in potestate cadere.
Poudre School District
Poudre School District played a signifigant early role in the family's life via Addy's school when the school's mandated reporters failed to report the many neglect or abuse witnessed by or reported to them by whenever the report involved Mother, yet overly reporting Father based almost exlusively on false allegations made third-hand by Mother and always without any articulable or tangible safety concern. Example:
- When Addy came to school from Mother with bruises and limping so much she could barely walk and couldn't sit at her desk, it was not reported.
- When Addy said she was afraid of 'creepy noises' from Father's 100+ year old house, it was reported immediately.
Town of Windsor Police Department
Windsor Police have failed to uphold laws or protect Jamie's rights in spite of Deirdre's clear lawlessness or supporting evidence. Windsor Police officers have systematically refused to trespass Deirdre from Jamie's property multiple times, refused to submit evidence to the county DA's office, refused to comply with state DMV laws to retrieve license plates stolen by Deirdre, tried to coerce Jamie into relinquishing his court-ordered parenting time to Deirdre, attempted to arrest Jamie for assault with no evidence after Deirdre was caught on camera trespassing & forcing her way into Jamie's home and despite the fact that any such action within the curtilage of Jamie's home would have been protected under Colorado law as "reasonable force" and "self-defense". Jamie has expressed his concerns to Windsor officials at more than a half-dozen Town Hall meetings, to no avail.
Karissa Beresford / Butts / Chiaris
1. The claimant, Karissa Beresford, does not own the copyright to this material.
2. The claimant, Karissa Beresford, is fraudulently using the DMCA system for a non-DMCA related concern (ie publicity/privacy).
3. The use of a single still frame/thumbnail for purposes of commentary and public interest reporting constitutes Fair Use under 17 U.S.C. § 107.
4. You cannot copyright your face, your physical appearance, or your "likeness" under U.S. law.
5. Section 512(f) of the DMCA allows me to sue for damages (including attorney fees) if someone "knowingly materially misrepresents" that material is infringing. Karissa Beresford surely knows she doesn't own the copyright, but is using the DMCA as a weapon to attempt to silence my blog, and by doing so she is opening herself up to significant legal liability that I am prepared to pursue if needed. (might want to discuss this with David since it's only his paycheck on the line)
6. Karissa Beresford appears to have the same grasp of the DMCA as she does the bible, otherwise she would have learned all of this, and 1 Timothy 2:11-12.
TL;DR: Go fuck yourself Karissa :)
Michael & Kimberly Butts
Pessimi homines res pessimas faciunt. Quis nostrum hoc prohibebit? Videtur mihi in potestate cadere.
Samantha Lehmann/Demander
Pessimi homines res pessimas faciunt. Quis nostrum hoc prohibebit? Videtur mihi in potestate cadere.
Charles "Charlie" Alfred Demander
Charles aka Charlie Demander was one of Deborah's many recent husbands. Despite the alarming age-gap and little history between them, Debora rushed into marriage and promptly moved into Charlie's childhood home in Wyoming together with her three teenage children. Per Deirdre, Charlie "had a drinking problem and would often get drunk then sexually assault her two younger sisters". Deborah and Charlie eventually moved to a different house together, abandoning all three children in what became known in the family as "The Kids' House", so Charlie and Deborah could "live their truth", sans her baggage children. Deborah eventually took Charlie's house, divorced, then sold the house before immediately moving her children in with a new man. Charlie's last known whereabouts are Greeley, CO where he has "had a change of heart and doesnt drink anymore" and "just wants to be friends with me and Addy", according to Deirdre.
Chris Reno
After leaving Charlie, Deborah quickly re-married and moved in with Chris. An executive accountant at Wyoming's largest independant cellular operator, and much like Charlie, Chris had a penchant for alcohol & Deborah's teenage daughters, coupled with skin-deep anger. Both Jamie and Deirdre witnessed or heard first-hand accounts of various forms of abuse unde this roof, including one notable instance where Jamie had to physically intervene after Chris ended a screaming match with Deborah by smacking her across the face in front of her children.
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